Sunday, August 15, 2010

The Noisiest House on the Block





Well the noise continues in this house, however, now, in addition to Gabe's lovely ear piercing shrieks, I now am hearing a "tough" animal. Gabe is starting to make his first animal sounds. He has been panting like a dog now for many weeks, but now he is trying to make pig or rinocerous snorting sounds by scrunching up his face. He also is saying the word "ball."

Carter is still making plenty of noise as well. During a typical day my carpet gets mowed and edged about 10 times. He also enjoys staking out his territory by claiming which toys are his. "No Gabe" is said so much that poor Gabe doesn't even take it seriously anymore. This bodes poorly for me just as I am starting to actually need to discipline curious little Gabe myself.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Lovin' the Summer





Well, it's been forever, but here I am again ready to post about all the fun we're having.

Carter and I have gotten to go out on many dates where it's just the two of us again and I think he has appreciated that. He has had to adjust to having to share everthing he owns and it has been a big deal. These days Carter spends his days snatching toys out of Gabe's hand saying, "No, that's mine." I think we are going to have to buy some special toys just for him that Gabe cannot touch and vice versa.

Carter has enjoyed many library trips, children's museum trips and of course, many restaurants this summer. We also go to swimming lessons together. He is making good progress on his kicking and throws a tantrum at the end of each class, so I know he enjoys it. He also enjoys the toy aisle at Target, based on the all time worst temper tantrum ever that I experienced yesterday when we left to go check out. His memory is getting really good too, so even if I don't take him anywhere near the toy aisle next time, he'll still remember that Target has toys.

He is getting more into playdough. We are enjoying making things with it and making up stories about those things. I love pretending with him becuase he honestly believes these made up things are talking to him. This is how I get him to comply with many unsavory tasks such as brushing teeth, eating his dinner, etc. With tooth brushing, I get out his Thomas the Train toothbrush and Thomas starts talking to him saying that he wants to eat all the sugar bugs on his teeth. Carter still protests, but he actually engages Thomas in a conversation while doing so.

In addition to refusing to eat, get dressed and brush teeth, Carter is still having trouble taking naps now that he has switched to a big boy bed. If he is tired enough, and I can, I try to read to him and sit with him until he calms down and goes to sleep, but usually, I can't leave Gabe unattended that long. Carter is absolutely horrendous when he has not napped. His tantrums are triple the rate without a nap, and he ends up refusing food and getting very violent with us. I really hope we can find a way to force him to nap.

In spite of all the challenges, each month of age brings us more joy. This week has been special becuase Carter has begun saying he loves us spontaneously.

Next week, as long as Carter catches up on all his missed sleep and gets over his cold, I will venture into potty training. I'm all ready! I even got a doll that wets to illustrate the mechanics. I had so much fun buying a girl toy, I cannot even tell you! The doll set also included a stethoscope, bandaids and thermometer so we use it to play doctor too.

In Gabriel's world, things are going great as well. Gabriel has been busy growing teeth, learning how to stand up, sit back down and spends his days exploring everything. Currently he loves the cat food bowl and has learned how to shake it so that some kibbles fall out. I have to watch him like a hawk since he gets into everything. He loves to lay on the cat, bounce a ball back and forth, play peekaboo (he holds cloths over his head and then pulls them down), and empty containers. He also enjoys reading and looking at pictures. He loves to look at pictures of Carter as a baby. He repeats a lot of sounds and this week started to say "ma ma." He is eating lots of things now and I am relieved to be beginning table foods with him finally. He has more of an appetite than Carter ever had, which makes me hopeful that we won't have the same food struggles. He still spits up very easily though.
He's a pretty easygoing most of the time, but when he's not happy, he still lets you know it with a very shrill shreik. Well, since he has decided that he doesn't want to take a decent nap today, I will close here before he starts typing.

///Gabe's first typing clssa

Saturday, May 22, 2010

The latest and greatest

Well another month has past and time to record the highlights.

Carter is full force into pretend games. He comes up with very creative things to turn into lawn blowers and edgers,and goes around making the humming sound. My favorite is when he wraps the leftover rubber baby proofing table guard around himself like he's holding the blower. He also learned to pedal forwards and backwards on his tricycle recently, and is very proud of that. Gabriel loves to play ball, and this has made Carter more interested in playing with balls. Unfortunately, this will also mean that the "no throwing balls in the house" rule needs to be established. He is developing the concept of sharing and is doing a better job offering Gabe something of "his" to play with, however, he is still bad about snatching toys out of Gabe's hands saying, "that's mine!" Poor Gabe. He barely has any toys. All of his toys have been appropriated by Carter.

For this reason, I think Gabe is racing to catch up. He has hit a lot of milestones this month. He learned to crawl, got three teeth, and I swear, is very close to being able to say four words: kitty cat, ball, bubble and tickle. He's mild mannered most of the time, and plays well independently, but when he's had enough, boy does he let you know. He goes from 0 to shrieking in a second. He enjoys books with textures and fuzzy stuff to touch. He loves to be held and danced with, just like Carter does. He recently got good enough at sitting to where I started bathing him with Carter. Now it's virtually impossible to get them out of the bathtub without double meltdowns. They love to splash each other. He is trying new foods, but sometimes he chokes on new foods and spits them up. He is still spitting up after each feeding of milk (boo!) I hope we can get on table food soon.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

A Tale of Two Cuties

I have been forgetting to record the story of the boys' youth, which was the whole purpose of this darn blog, so here is the blog equivalent of a dissertation to make up for that.

Carter is now a little over two and he is currently into flower picking. Luckily, he picks the tiny weed flowers that have popped up all over our lawn so everybody wins. He spends his days playing with his garbage trucks, dump trucks and riding around in his car, which he now calls a pickup truck. He always asks Gabriel to ride in the backseat so they can go "grocery shopping." I pick Gabe up and put him on the back drink holders of the car, and Carter and he ride off. He loves it when he gets out of that car, and I say, "Oh shucks! I wanted to ride some more." If I forget to say it, he stands there and commands me, "Say Oh shucks!" He goes and usually buys grapes and ice cream and then brings them back to us to sample. He's pretty much into anything that goes. He and daddy go to the airport to watch the planes take off and land. Along the way, they stop and look for all types of trucks, trains and railroad tracks. He always likes to tell us whether a plane is taking off or landing when he sees them in the sky.

Carter also plays a lot with his kitchen. He plays restaurant and serves us all his plastic food. He enjoys slicing his velcro fruit with his "sharp knife." Lately, he has been serving his racoon, and Tigger Tiger "milk" by lifting up his shirt, putting two of his Lovey Dog blankets across his chest and sticking the racoon and Tigger Tiger under the blankets. Sometimes he puts them on his belly button and gives them milk from there too. He also likes to stuff racoon into his shirt and say he has a baby in his tummy like mommy. Everyone in our family has been accused of having a baby in their tummy at one point.

He has really taken to singing, and is remembering more and more details/lines of songs. He has a galloping-like dance move that he does whenever music is playing. He has wonderful ears and always likes to ask, "Was dat noise?" whenever he hears a sound. He used to do a quick look to the right and then to the left every time he asked that question which was so cute, but that has sadly disappeared. He's growing up so quickly :(

He is becoming easier to feed because now he requests certain food favorites and I can say, "eat your ______first and then you can have _____." He's still very finicky and we still have to use our thinking skills to figure out how to get him to consume the most nutritious food before he demands his old standby, milk. Last night he only ate his meat pie with cherry jelly on top of it. Today, he didn't want his oatmeal, so I cut a grape in half to make two green eyes, made a nose with a banana, and a mouth with a nectarine slice and presented the oatmeal to him calling it, "Oatmeal Carter." He seemed to appreciate the gesture, and he did eat most of it.

He is getting much better at sharing with Gabriel. He still says things are "his" but if you tell him that it's Gabriel's turn, he usually assents. He is very fascinated with his brother and always likes to have him around. Now, whenever I do something fun to Carter, such as giving him a ride, he promptly tells me, "Now it's Gabwiel's turn." He loves watching Gabriel's reactions.

Gabriel is doing great as well. He is almost six months. He doesn't wake as often in the night. He still spits up, which is annoying because you just have to expect that when he goes down on his tummy, you will have to clean something up. A bib is obligatory, and I go to work with a puke stained shirt every morning. But he is definitely more rotund than Carter, so I am not at all worried about it affecting his weight gain.

His current goal is to become mobile and talk like his big brother. He has started scooting himself backwards, and today I noticed him lifting himself up in the plank position which is what Carter did right before he started crawling, so maybe he'll crawl soon. He, like Carter, loves to go after the little fish that rattles from the Lamaze fishbowl sea creature set. I don't know what it is about that fish, but he's some kind of wizard. Both my boys were very drawn to him. He is getting better at sitting up on his own. I just make sure his periphery is clear and padded so when he inevitably tips over, he is not hurt.

Gabe is babbling and spitting a lot. He is a little more tempermental than Carter was. Carter was pretty even-keeled and serious in front of strangers. He almost never got scared of them. He would stare at them seriously and it would take a little doing to get him to crack a smile. Gabe is either a complete charmer and smiles easily front of strangers, or he bursts into shrieks of terror depending on his mood.

He loves to hear pattycake, Peek-a-boo, Georgie Porgie, Ba Ba Black Sheep and Row Row Row your boat. He, like Carter, is mesmerized by his father and the other day just burst into tears when Daddy left the room. Carter didn't have a lot of separation anxiety so this was a complete surprise for us to experience.

I could keep on writing since everything they do is interesting to me, but I feel like my fingers have had enough, and I have an opportunity for a nap, so I will end it with that. More to come though, so stay tuned :)

Monday, March 22, 2010

Travel





Well, we finally attempted a family road trip and it went well aside from the wailing that ensued when we tried to put the kids to bed in the hotel. Normally we just shut the doors and pretend we don't hear it when we put them down for the night, but that's hard to do in a hotel room when they are right there five feet away from you and two feet away from each other. At least no one complained to the front desk. It's pretty amazing how much two little ones can trash a hotel room too. Ok, I'll admit it, I had a part in trashing the room also. But we didn't get fined for staining the carpet so that's good.

We had a very nice time though. The only way to do a trip with the kids is to have a very loose agenda. I got to do a little bit of everything I love to do on a trip -talk to my husband in the car, listen to good road tunes, read, eat, shop and also got to spend some time in a Mc Donald's playground. We tried swimming, but that didn't go over too well for some reason. I guess I need to sign Carter up for swimming lessons to get over his current aversion to pools.

Monday, March 15, 2010